Would you get back or not? What would you do?

What goes around comes around. The only thing I can say is she must think pretty highly of your choices. If she cannot make a choice for herself of what to get her daughter. She is trying to get a reaction out of you. Don't. That will be enough to put her in her place. Besides is your daughter going to like it less because she has already played with it? No, now she has her own. Let your daughter enjoy the gift that you planned for her and smile.